Dynamics of Relationships!!!!

Have you ever observed, rose petals falling off the flower.
Have you ever observed a wall poster peeling off the wall.
Have you ever observed a scholar leaving his high school for higher studies to some other place.
Have you ever observed an employee being honored with a farewell at your organisation.
Have you ever observed a Giant Join venture company failing to go together, and one of them taking over the other..
Have you ever observed a marriage falling apart which was promised to be forever.
Have you ever observed blood relatives estrange each other.
Have ever observed some one whom you know for quiet some time had passed away.

You should have defenitely experienced atleast one of these situations, first hand.
May be each of the above situations cited above are different in their being but they all share the same instance of a situation. Each of the above situations mark the instance "stop being together". The inviduals/ entities leaving apart share a relationship, which is different in each case. They are all different, some of the individuals/ entities described above are controlled by laws of nature, some by the laws of physics, and some by the psychologies; Yet all share the same dynamics in their life cycle of relationship. That is, the way they formed the relationship, the way they built the relationship being together, the way they grew/fall in the relationship, and the way they part away from the relationship.

Here are pieces of my work on the Dynamics of relationships:
Every relationship in this Universe has a purpose, and there is also a time frame attached to every relationship.

For example,
The relationship between a doctor and a patient is only till the illness is cured.

The relationship between a teacher and a student is only till the course of education is completed.

The relationship between a lamp and a person in darkness is only till the arrival of light..........

Every relationship has a purpose, as you can understand, what is the purpose of a patient as well as doctor to come together or the purpose of a teacher and student to come together. That is, a patient might have approached a doctor so that his illness is cured and a student has approached a teacher to gain knowledge. The doctor might have served patient for Remuneration or it may be his passion for service and same with the Teacher. Usually these relationships come into existence after a proper decision making by either entities/ individuals planning to get into a relationship. It means a patient finds out who is the best doctor for his illness; a student finds out details of the best teachers in his subject to get in touch with. Not often, it happens that these relationships are made without a thought...................

Each relationship has a time frame, which might had been decided before hand or decided by the situations the relationship grows/ falls into. Usually, the time frame is till the purpose has been served to either one or both the individuals involved in the relationship. Usually it happens that when one individual/ entity‘s purpose is served, the relationship is continued till the others’ purpose is also served; only in the case of self-interested individuals/ entities it may not happen, who leave the relationship once their purpose is served..........

However there are relationships which don’t have a purpose but has another characteristic called Passion (there are more of this kind characteristics which are described in detail in other places of the book) which decides the time frame and the dynamics of relationship. When a relationship is bound by Passion, it is taken to be an open ended or eternal relationship. These relationships driven by Passion also do have a purpose, but these purposes have a forward orientation. To put it more clear, in the example of doctor and patient relationship, they both have purposes which benefit them back which is oriented back to each one of them, but in the case of the Passion driven relationships, the purpose is to benefit (may be give comfort, give happiness, give support) to the other individual/ entity in the relationship.........

The time frame may be sometimes uncertain, In the case of death of an individual due to accidental reasons, it is true that the relationship is no more live. (although few types of relationships which are committed on emotional and psychological lines will not agree on this point, but it is true that realistically the relationship has ended due to the law of nature.)............................ more

Frendz, the work above is only based on my thoughts aroused after different experiences and the message may be different for different individuals.